Getting Started Online – Do You Need A Mentor?
Hi again. I would have made this post a lot earlier but my computer died (RIP lol) and I have just got a replacement. In my last post I discussed getting started online. In this post I’will discuss how I found my mentor (coach).
Now, there are various schools of thought on this subject. Some people believe you don’t need a mentor. I have heard some people I know say “Why would you want to pay for someone to teach you? You can just Google it for free.”" If getting started online was that easy then we’d all be doing it, right? There are some people out there who don’t need help and good luck to them. However, your chances of success are greatly increased if you have someone helping you. So it is with that thought that I’ll share with you how I found my mentor.
It was late August last year and I remember I was becoming frustrated with my online efforts. I was heavily into eBay at the time and I felt I was missing ”something.” I could not say exactly what it was but I could see I had little direction. I was doing things ad hoc and not really getting any measurable results. I remember hearing someone say they had made their start online in internet marketing. At the time I knew NOTHING about IM so I “Googled it” and found an internet marketer from the UK. His name was John Thornhill and he is still my mentor today.
So, getting back to the original question “Do you need a mentor?” I believe you do. Even if you have been in business “offline” doing business “online” is very different. A mentor can steer you in the right direction and offer advice when needed as they have been there before you. A mentor can also fast track your progress and help you achieve success. I guess the next question is a bit obvious. lol
How do you choose a mentor?
This is one question that I have been asked quite a bit. My answer has always been – it’s your choice. In saying this here are a few tips to help you choose.
Do you connect with them ie do you have similar views? Its much easier to listen to someone if you have similar views.
Do they tell the truth? This is very important as you don’t want to have someone teaching you if they are deceptive or use dishonest practices.
Do they tell you straight? Sometimes we all need a reality check and if your mentor is telling you you’re dreaming then you probably are.
Do they reply to your emails, phone calls etc? If they are the real deal they will have open lines of communication.
Do your homework. Check them out online in forums and product reviews. Who do they associate with? Birds of a feather? If your proposed mentor is offering something that is too good to be true, then it probably is. (eg Ï’ll show you how to make a gazillion dollars with 2 minutes work a day” As if!)
I know it is not easy to find a mentor online you can trust. I actually emailed John after a webinar and he replied to me. (Some people don’t reply.) This showed me he was interested in me and each time I have needed to contact him, he has ALWAYS replied. That is the mark of an honest business man.
I hope you have found this post informative. As usual if you have any questions please drop me a line.
Craig



